tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post8494297635230355895..comments2023-09-30T09:51:17.040-06:00Comments on For Better or For Worse: The Cleaning Fairies Have LEFT The Building!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-32473171084009276542008-03-08T21:51:00.000-07:002008-03-08T21:51:00.000-07:00Thank goodness for Lara (whoever she is :D). When ...Thank goodness for Lara (whoever she is :D). When you wife asked me to rally the troops and clean the house as a family Saturday morning. We did it, from 8:45 a.m. to 12:00 noon. It was a lot of work but the silver lining was that, besides the house getting cleaned, the kids were so busy doing something worthwhile I didn't hear one fight. Our reward? Family breakfast at IHOP.<BR/><BR/>P.S. Sometimes I forget my comment is supposed to go to my wife and it usually ends up being my own mini-blog. Sweetie, you okay if I parasite your blog? :)BigInJapanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02138779625576069662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-33020532131068488102008-03-02T13:48:00.000-07:002008-03-02T13:48:00.000-07:00Found you while surfing Blogger. Very nice Blog. K...Found you while surfing Blogger. Very nice Blog. Keep up the good work!<BR/><BR/>CarolynCarolynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04450417105199027727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-57258260498032777172008-02-29T10:27:00.000-07:002008-02-29T10:27:00.000-07:00I wish that when the Cleaning Fairies left your pl...I wish that when the Cleaning Fairies left your place, homeless and pushed out by your fantastic kiddos...they had seen that my house is warm and inviting and in need of a few good cleaning fairies! Especially ones that specialize in laundry.<BR/><BR/>Stupid cleaning fairies!The Rookiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07856225364926460372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-77640540238639392112008-02-29T07:59:00.000-07:002008-02-29T07:59:00.000-07:00I am always amazed at how much we can get done whe...I am always amazed at how much we can get done when we work together as a family. Its the inspiring them to put in a good effort when we do that I struggle with. Thanks for being such a good example!Nettiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07944075197437870258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-49920694399789476172008-02-29T01:53:00.000-07:002008-02-29T01:53:00.000-07:00I agree. My 8 and 10 year-olds have been doing job...I agree. My 8 and 10 year-olds have been doing jobs around the house for years. There is absolutely no way that I could run this house solo. My 5 year-old has been emptying the dishwasher and cleaning up after his brother (hehe). We debate about the allowance issue also. I want to give them money unrelated to chores. That money will be used for extras (snacks, toys, friends's party gifts, yearbooks, etc). We are not consistent either with allowance, and I struggle with some guilt about not letting them "be kids". I know that it is a true life lesson that I am teaching, it just feels a little uncomfortable sometimes.<BR/><BR/>You are right. Everyone can have more family time if everyone helps out. And mommy is happier, which is important, too. I even told DH that a man doing housework is very sexy-hopefully he won't catch on :)Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05705670723604409380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-42846882397887860602008-02-29T00:24:00.000-07:002008-02-29T00:24:00.000-07:00Way to start with "The Talk". This whole post just...Way to start with "The Talk". This whole post just gives me chills. It's so exciting to get the kids involved and there are so many rewards. We are eating better now that the kids are helping with the cooking! Imagine that!Larahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12518442124374879454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-12936699563663396342008-02-28T22:58:00.000-07:002008-02-28T22:58:00.000-07:00mattsmom: I know what you are getting at. We hav...mattsmom: I know what you are getting at. We have had quite the quandry about allowance. I guess our one saving grace is that we are not consistent about it. Some months they get it, some months they forget about it. They are young enough that they don't realize that it falls on our paydays. They just get an allowance when we give them some. Most of the time it's when they want something and we ask them if they have saved enough of their allowance. Then we remember to give it to them. <BR/><BR/>We have worried about the same thing. Where do you draw that line? We don't know. How do you know if you are doing the right thing? We have talked about how when they are teenagers cutting off the allowance completely and having them rely on babysitting money or having them come to us to get $ for things they need and doing bigger chores that need to be done that we don't always get to to earn their money. I am sure we will cross that bridge when they drag us there kicking and screaming. <BR/><BR/>Right now we are just trying to teach them the concept of saving and tithing. They were always asking for treats at the store. Rather than buying them treats, we asked them if they had brought their $ and if they had saved enough for what they wanted. We wanted them to know that we need our $ for things like groceries, utilites, and other things. Not candy or toys for them. They are learning that the candy bars that are gone in two minutes are not as valuable as the toy they want.<BR/><BR/>I was raised that you do things in your home because you are a part of the family. You aren't entitled to anything. You have to do your part and you are expected to do your part. Thank you for that Mom and Dad. That was a hugely valuable lesson. <BR/><BR/>I earned my own money as I got older. I babysat starting at 9 (it was a different world then) and I learned to work hard and saved. My parents gave me a great work ethic.Blackeyedsuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15626674680062162360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-86190152970168218252008-02-28T22:45:00.000-07:002008-02-28T22:45:00.000-07:00Good for you! I am with you on not "paying" the k...Good for you! I am with you on not "paying" the kids for doing house hold jobs. I am really on the fence about how exactly to give them money. I worry that an allowance when they haven't earned it will make them feel like we "owe" them something. How does it work at your house? Any advice (from a more experienced mom) on the subject would be greatly appreciated!Mattsmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17920501559936755552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-53184614075296237882008-02-28T17:50:00.000-07:002008-02-28T17:50:00.000-07:00I'm on my way to read that post and be inspired (h...I'm on my way to read that post and be inspired (hopefully). I'm trying to come up with a better way to get more cooperation with chores around the house.Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07219151687274590976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-78474292376327571062008-02-28T13:45:00.000-07:002008-02-28T13:45:00.000-07:00We do give our kids allowance. They get $5 on the...We do give our kids allowance. They get $5 on the 1st and 15th. We use it as a tool to teach them about tithing, saving and spending. They are saving up for things they want. It isn't connected to their jobs in the house. Some days the work load is too much for that and some days not enough. <BR/><BR/>I don't know if we are right on that or not. I guess we will know when our kids are older and we see how their financal savy is. They are hard little workers so I don't worry too much about it.Blackeyedsuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15626674680062162360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-40732242551123945802008-02-28T13:41:00.000-07:002008-02-28T13:41:00.000-07:00Way to re-invent the machine. I hope this continu...Way to re-invent the machine. I hope this continues working for you. I know I need to change the way we do things around here. I think I will use some of these ideas as well.<BR/><BR/>Do you give your kids allowance?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-13793478699452532112008-02-28T13:39:00.000-07:002008-02-28T13:39:00.000-07:00You are a woman after my own heart. I think that'...You are a woman after my own heart. I think that's why I think you are so awesome!! :) <BR/>I loved this!! Thanks!Chelliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16346148673733355074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26062419.post-11382648471090912662008-02-28T11:07:00.000-07:002008-02-28T11:07:00.000-07:00What a great system (for lack of a better word)!!!...What a great system (for lack of a better word)!!! Thanks for sharing!Tori :)https://www.blogger.com/profile/14963896000691417017noreply@blogger.com